Ranting over Ramen: Inconsiderate, Mean and Downright Rude!

Introduction:

This is going to be another series – of weekly or monthly rants. So buckle up buttercup and grab a cuppa!

• When people assume things of you.
• When people add on responsibilities that aren’t yours.
• Inconsiderate and irresponsible people.
• Mean people. Point blank.
• Periods that last longer than a week, or even a month. Ugh.
• Dishes – so many never ending dishes.
• Laundry – so much never ending laundry.
• The heat, and humidity.

There could be more but that’s a good start. Let’s dive in!

The Ranting Part:

Assumption’s + Inconsideration: It’s just so inconsiderate when people assume things of you. For example, thinking that someone’s a nerd because they wear glasses. As far as expectations go – when they make something your responsibility without asking you… that is just absolutely rude! Ugh.

Mean people: I don’t understand them at all, why put in the energy of being miserable and mean? Laugh and smile instead – I promise it feels better! Positive things attract positive people! You know?

I recently had a stranger say something mean about me – and I just laughed about it out of surprise, and then stewed over what I could have said. We all do this, eh? The back story is – for my internship I had to take a video of myself mailing a letter, so I walk up to the mailbox while two women are sitting at a bench in front of it… they get up to leave and see me holding my phone up towards the mailbox. Well, what does the one say? She scoffs, and says “That girl is taking a photo of the mailbox” Oh dear. Really? There’s more things in life to be concerned about than a woman taking a photo of a mailbox. Haha!

Aunt Flow: Now, periods that last longer than a week. I once had one for two whole months. That was fun. Ugh!! Well, when this happens it’s simply not okay in my books. It’s also expensive and uncomfortable. This should be illegal in my opinion!

Dishes and Laundry: I think some people enjoy one or the other, but as for me. Nah. I just feel like it’s never ending, and having a small room upstairs – it’s a long trek downstairs for the laundry and dishes. I’m trying to get into a good routine but it’s tough. What are your tips for routines?

The heat and humidity:

Seriously, why?! My hair has been acting up ever since summer started – so frizzy and annoying! I think I’ll wear it up for the rest of summer! As for the heat, it needs to go away rather quickly so sweater weather can be here! Ahhhh. I seriously can’t wait.

The Resolving Part:

Assumption’s + Inconsideration:
If someone is assuming something about you, the best thing usually is: do not engage them. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for who you are and you don’t have to defend yourself to someone who isn’t taking the time to learn about you. Don’t waste time worrying about whether or not this person knows the “truth” about you. It’s not worth it.

If they’re consistently selfish and/or inconsiderate, it’s time to create some space. Setting boundaries around how much time you spend with them or how often you speak to them is helpful too. And, of course – communicate these boundaries clearly. 

Mean people:
Take a deep breath and be calm instead of snapping back. Words and how you react matter. Don’t let them provoke you or get the best of you. If all else fails, walk away and be proud you didn’t succumb to negativity.

Aunt Flow:
I guess the best advice is to go to my family doctor and get diagnosed which I did, but there’s not really any plan going forward and I don’t want to go on birth control – so I’m stuck… it doesn’t happen every cycle – just this last one. Boo. Any holistic advice?

Dishes and Laundry:
The best advice would probably be to just do it – and set a schedule to stay motivated. Get into the routine again, whether it’s every weekend, or smaller loads every so often.

The heat and humidity:
Cold showers will be your best friend. Go somewhere with an AC if your houses unit isn’t working! Stay hydrated. Avoid alcohol and hot drinks! And, maybe think of Alaska often? Haha.

Well, that’s about it folks. What are your rants for the week/month?